Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Lady Luck is smiling on us!

Why are we so lucky? Because everything is moving right along so smoothly. Our doctor called and said she will squeeze us in this week (her next appt. was 8 weeks away!) We've already completed several of our docs and sent away for several more. Why am I in such a hurry to get things done, you may ask? I'm just not the kind of person who likes things hanging over my head. If I have a task to do, I just want to get it done. Also, I have this strong, strong feeling that our daughter is waiting for us and that every day that we accomplish something we're working on bringing her home to us! So, many people have asked exactly what we have to do (hopefully in the next 2 weeks or so) to complete the homestudy. Here's the big list:
Live Scan Fingerprinting
Criminal Record Statements
Child Desired Worksheet (6 pages)
Getting to know you (11 pages each parent)
Getting to know you as a couple (10 pages)
Autobiography for each parent
CPR for both
Guardianship Form (notarized)
Marriage Certificate
Medical Reports with bloodwork for parents and kids
IRS 1040
Financial Statement with income, debts, investments, etc.
Job verification letter
School reports for kids
SIX character references (3 friends, 2 relatives, and a neighbor)
Adoption Risk Release (notarized)
Release of Information
Affirmation Statement
Duty to Disclose
Proof of Health Insurance
Proof of Life Insurance (for both)
Post Placement Agreement (notarized)
8 hours of online Hague training
Attachment workshop (7 hours on a Saturday)
3 Required books
Adoption Learning Partners Online classes- required for each to take separately- a total of about 8 hours each: Medical Issues, Conspicuous Families, and Let's Talk about Adoption
Plus online research with short essays about each site
And then the interviews and home visit from our social worker
This is in addition to all the documents from our placing agency! WHEW!
See why I'm a little overwhelmed? I just have to remember one thing at a time and it will all get done :) Send more "lucky" wishes our way- it's working!

2 comments:

cathy said...

okay, i am tired from just reading the list. i totally know how you feel just wanting to get it done. i know you guys can handle all that comes your way. just take it one thing at a time and keep thinking of that wonderful prize!

Bethany said...

LOL Isn't it fun? You are getting closer!